God's Purpose

I've heard so many times that God has a purpose and plan for each life. Every time I contemplate the depth of that and analyze my purpose, the questions come flying at me. Have I found my purpose; what is my purpose; have I missed it? I can't imagine facing God and him saying to me, "I had great plans for you, Martha. I created you for a purpose, but you never found it." So, several years ago, during the angst of searching my soul, I concluded that my purpose had been and is mothering. It is certainly what I have spent most of my life doing.

Occasionally, God reminds me that I am doing just fine with the mothering thing. This week I received a message through Facebook from the daughter of a long time friend. She stated that I had always been another mother to her! This precious young woman is dealing with some issues resulting from father abandonment, so I called her tonight. Again she expressed appreciation that I am like a mother to her and know her history. God is so good to affirm me in my purpose.

Another way that I saw God's purpose for my life was realizing that most of my friends are young enough for me to be their mother. All young adults are not in need of another mother, but some are. They are the ones that God brings into my life. I pour into them encouragement, teaching, the wisdom of my experience (see my first blog) and, hopefully, an eternal perspective. In return I receive their youthful perspective, energy and humor. I like to think mothering is a win-win situation and I am blessed to be a part of their lives. I am so thankful to have been invited in!

I've lost count of how many children and grandchildren I have. Some were a part of my life for a season and others are forever. I became a mother for the first time at age 20 when my first child was born. Since then, I have had children of the heart and of the womb, a procession of different ages, needs and circumstances. However, one truth is constant: every child, no matter the age, needs and deserves love, respect, and wings.

Sometimes God's purpose and plan for your life can only be seen in retrospect. Keep looking for the patterns.